Divorce is not something that we take lightly or suggest, as a matter of factly. It has great ramifications that can and will stick with you for a while. So we don't like them, but we do understand their utility. In an effort to not repeat what we say in the book, we'll just say that, while we, just like Christ, hate divorce; just like Christ we also understand that the function of divorce is safety, survival, and ultimately, healing and thriving.
We’ve seen hundreds, if not thousands, of articles and blog posts that detail all of the signs that we are dating or married to a narcissist. While many of these articles help you understand your hurt, NONE of them truly prepare you for life after a narcissist.
No. You’re not stupid because you still love them. You’re not crazy because you can’t get them out of your head. Just because you still struggle, doesn’t mean that your faith in God has failed. Your brokenness has a purpose and the purpose is to teach you that, while you were not made for brokenness, you were DESIGNED to survive the break.