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Left Behind: He Moved On Like I Never Existed

Tune in on This Episode Where We Answer This Explosive Letter Where the Listener Asks "How Could He Move On Like I Never Existed?!" The letter is posted below.

Tune in on This Episode Where We Answer This Explosive Letter Where the Listener Asks “How Could He Move On Like I Never Existed?!” The letter is posted below.

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Dear Kenyon and Taccara Martin,

What do you do when your ex of SEVEN YEARS has a whole new life (with another woman) after only 4-months?! Please tell me cause that is where I am right NOW.


I thought we were in love. I just knew we would last forever. I thought we would end up married, eventually, but he’s always said he wanted to take his time on such a big commitment. SO, I accepted that and made a life with him in every other way. Meaning…we made plans for a future together, we saved money for a future together, we even bought a house for our future…TOGETHER. It got to the point where I just bought a ring to wear on my finger because we literally had everything else that most had in a marriage. And did I mention..WE WERE HAPPY?!?


Until last year.


Suddenly, we began fighting all the time.  I began to feel like he didn’t like me or like he was always disgusted with me or disappointed with me. Over the past year it was like he went from being the man of my dreams to living in a nightmare on elm street. As time went on, he started staying out late. On some nights he didn’t even come home. One time I didn’t see him all weekend and I literally called the police to report him as a missing person. He wouldn’t answer my calls. I didn’t know what else to think other than something happened to him.


When he finally came home, he said he was staying at his mother’s house doing some “soul searching” and came to a tough decision…he didn’t want to be with me any more. He doesn’t love me like he used to. He made a mistake staying with me for so long. He even said he felt like I took some of his best years from him because I was so needy and it made him feel obligated to stay. None of these things are words you would say to a woman you said you’d marry. But he did.


It’s been 4 months since he walked out that door and, not only did he leave me with a mortgage and 2 dogs, he’s created an entire whole life with another woman. She’s friends with one of my co-workers on Facebook I found out that they live together, are planning a future together and are having a baby together. They seem so happy and I’m over here still spinning from it all.


How is it that he is able to move on so EASY after leaving me so broken and feeling betrayed?

  • Kirsten
    Posted at 05:54h, 02 February

    You are 100% correct in the results. 😣😭

  • Kanisha McLaurin
    Posted at 07:17h, 02 February

    Soul ties is something I’ve often prayed about the severing of them once divorced , they’re very real and God wants them broken especially the unhealthy ones . I desire to be Free Indeed

  • Candra Little
    Posted at 09:18h, 02 February

    Good questions

  • Nora Smith
    Posted at 23:58h, 02 February

    I thank the Lord for y’all. Those words was very encouraging, uplifting & right on time. Continue to let God use you & thank you for being obedient.

  • Andriel
    Posted at 19:04h, 03 February

    Interested in the results

  • Sharee U
    Posted at 04:19h, 04 February

    Thank you

  • Mrs. Angel Alecia Tydings-Downs
    Posted at 14:24h, 05 February

    So much I could share but my godmother keep telling me to write a book… Thankful for your work. Thank you.

  • Taneatia
    Posted at 18:14h, 05 February

    Thank you

  • Shawna
    Posted at 02:47h, 06 February

    Very close to home. Interesting quiz & I’m definitely gonna purchase the book. I look forward to this detox unlike any other!!!

  • Ashaley Clark
    Posted at 07:55h, 06 February

    I’m so broken right now. I need help.

  • Tara
    Posted at 08:12h, 10 February

    I have prayed about God breaking any soul ties that I may have to my ex husband, and then I saw this quiz/ad.

  • Gina Burney
    Posted at 19:05h, 19 June

    A soul tie=unhealthy addiction…yes im definately a victim of this real frustrating emotion…im in the process.of a detoxifying my soul..spirit…its tough.

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